Here we go again.
just got home from class, and heck, got crushed by my professor. bull it. stressful day indeed. And so, as i go home, sometimes people recognize it as being alone. Being alone indeed.
LONER.
Bagong trend sa mga tambay ngayon, or di na pala bago, ngayon lang halos nagka emphasis dahil sa mga patawa ng mga tao. Ang pagiging Loner ba eh sign ng kakulangan sa kaibigan at kakulangan sa kahalagahan? Well, hindi ako naniniwala sa ganun, dahil most of the time mag-isa lang ako.
Mag-isa in a sense na ang diwa ko lang ang kasama ko sa pagtambay at paglakbay sa mga araw araw na puntahin sa mundo.
Hindi nangangahulugan na wala kang prends pag madalas kang mamataang mag-isa sa labas. Based on my experience ganun ang nakikita ko. Feeling ng mga tao sa paligid ko wala akong kaibigan. Dyan kayo nagkakamali. I boast a good list of friends, and i am happy to have and be with them. well anyway as a personal thing pala kaibigan akong tao, isip kasi ng iba kapag Loner either suplado, mayabang, hindi namamansin, or anything with angas effect.
No can do. kapag naranasan mo nang maging loner, malamang naranasan mo na ang isa o mas marami pa sa mga bagay na ito:
Pumunta sa Mall ng mag-isa: CHECK
Manood ng sine mag-isa: CHECK
Mamasyal mag-isa: CHECK
Kumain mag-isa: CHECK
Tumambay mag-isa: TSEK!
based on my experience ulit, recommended maging Loner kapag ikaw ay may iniisip deep down, vice versa to the thing na mas ok ang may kaibigang kasama kapag may problema. What i am talking about here is self-evaluation, mag-isa ka lang nagiisip and dig deep down to know what is there to life.
kadalasan ok rin tumambay mag-isa dahil mas mataas ang sense of contentment, you can do anything, nothing will stop you and nothing will bother you. Walang epal sa paligid mo, just you and your thoughts.
Bad side is, katawan mo lang ang kasangga mo. Baka may man-trip sayo mag-isa ka lang. Good side and funny one(for the boys) is that kapag me magandang chicks na namataan sa paligid, mas magaling and mas convincing ang diskarte mo dahil wala kang kasama. Mas effective. (sana?)
Eh hindi ko naman nirerekomend na maging Loner ka na buong buhay mo, hindi maganda sa health and well-being yun. its just that there are times that being a Loner is to be with your innerself. doing things alone, enjoying life alone, and broadening your horizons alone. Bolder, and Wider.
Being alone doesn’t mean you’re sad or lonely or anything on the negative. being alone just means you like being with yourself. Mas masarap nga maging kaibigan ang mga marunong maging Loner, dahil alam nila kung paano maging mag-isa, alam din nila kung ano ang kahalagahan ng isang kasama kesa sa mga tropa-pips na walang ginawa kundi umasa sa iba. Being a Loner just means you can do things alone. And so, is a candidate to be a responsible and Intellectual individual.
Yan oh Tingnan nio si manong masaya kahit mag-isa! haha.
Enjoy life!
haha, wala namang masama sa pagiging loner.
sometimes ako mas favorable sakin ang maging loner (sa condo ko nga loner ako palagi. x_O). But that’s where the good things come: mas makakapagconcentrate ka with the things that you’re thinking inside your head. It’s best to settle and iron out issues while in your “loner” mode. xD
Btw Kuya Z, I’ve tagged you here.
Cheers. 
Nice one bunso, manang-mana ka talaga sa pinagmanahan mo, —-> me, hehehe.
Yup, there’s no problem in doing things alone, or going somewhere alone, sabi mo nga, sariling diskarte, no hassles about disapproving tropapips to consider. But no doubt it’s also cool to go around with your friends once in a while.
Me too, when I was your age, pagbukas pa lang ng mga sinehan sa recto at around 9:30 am, go na ko inside lalo na pag like ko talaga ung movie, (4.50 pa lang bayad sa sine nun sa orchestra, pag may ekstrang piso, balcony na kinukuha ko hahaha). With a a couple of hotdog or cheese waffles and 2 Zest O tetra paks, after lunch na labas ko. oks lang di ba, walang mang iistorbo sa yong tropa habang nanonood ka. minsan kasi pag may kasama kang nanonood, tanong ng tanong pa sa iyo ung kasama mo kung bakit ganun, bakit ganyan, e pareho lang naman kayong nanonood hahaha (or is it the other way around, ikaw pala tanung ng tanong, hahaha uli).
Yes, nothing wrong with being a tambay. We all become tambays once in a while. The bottomline is, time spent alone should be worthwhile and, if circusmtances would allow, something that you can learn something of, or should we say, something that would improve your perspective of life. Kung tatambay ka lang sa kanto para magbilang ng mga dumadaang tricycle at suminghot ng usok ng mga nagdaraang sasakyan, why not spend 15 pesos pamasahe balikan and walk into the History Books section of National Bookstore at magbasa ka na lang ng mga History books na gustung-gusto mo, di ba?
Keep it up bunso, nice …. Teka, have you considered having a career in journalism in case di ka mag-click sa I.T.? hehehe
God bless…
Tol ok lng magisa paminsan minsan sabi mo nga mas mkakapag isip ka..
tska mas masarap mag muni-muni mag isa. Ang ayw ko lng eh ung nkakabit sa katagang loner. Because of the rampant increasement of EMOS sh*t here in the philippines parang yung dating nung loner emo? dba? haha!!
pag nagiisa nga ako sa skul tapos tahimik ako.. LOlo kohin ako ng mga klasm8 ko. “Ui si dars Emo na naman!!” aww. shit..geh pre..!!
dude, whoever you are… i like your blog.. right now im facing my computer doing nothing but type this bullsht message. Im a loner and it hurts most of the time. You know when i saw this blog, you just made me glad. Im glad coz now I know im not the only one who feels alone.. I want to make friends with you…just send me an email…
Sa kaso ko, mas epektibo sa akin ang pagiging loner. Mas nagiging produktibo kasi ang ang araw kapag ganoon ako.
so true..
wLa nman tLagang mSama sa pgging loner..
haha
mas gusto q ngang mg’isa ..
bukod sa wla kang iniintnding iba e mgagawa mu pa lhat ng gus2 mung gawin..
at walang maingay..
wLang bonggang s2rbo.. ^^,
pwo d q pa tLaga ntry magsine mg’isa..
nu feelng?!?
hahah
nu feeling ng manuod ng sine mag isa? 50% chance nothing, 50% chance something funny will happen.
had an experience when i was watching movies alone, had a baklushii harassing me and i had to move to a different seat!